What a woman really wants is to be loved without being possessed

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Men throughout history have owned women to posses their beauty and wisdom as an exclusive jewel. At the same time, women have being conditioned through religion and more recently mass media, to accept that their worthiness comes from the men who commits to love her for ever in a ceremony called marriage.
The truth is that a woman is like a bird, beautiful and inspiring, but only when she is free. A woman will offer the gift of her presence to the man that gives up his need to ejaculate and his fear of being alone.
By men drawing their sense of worthiness from the NEED TO BE NEEDED, and women from the NEED TO BE POSSESSED, love has being drained out of humanity.
Wouldn’t be more realistic to accept that relationships only last until their purpose is met? and that more than one relationship is necessary to fulfill various purposes? Why the selfish exclusivity!
If the purpose is to procreate, then the relationship should end or be re invented when the kids are borned. If the purpose is to raise and educate kids, then it should last until they leave the house…
Love without expectations and ownership is my only hope for the next generation.
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One thought on “What a woman really wants is to be loved without being possessed

  1. Very inspiring editorial…. we need to move as men and women into a space of love for one another without attachment. That would then free us to love for the truth of who we are. Love without possession. Well said Marilu…

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